Kenali Tanda-Tanda Cyber Affair yang Dilakukan Pasangan

Kenali Tanda-Tanda Cyber Affair yang Dilakukan Pasangan
Ilustrasi pasangan sedang melakukan perselingkuhan online. Credits: Freepik

Daftar Isi

Bagikan :


Dengan segala kemudahan teknologi, memungkinkan seseorang untuk melakukan perselingkuhan online. Apakah Anda mencurigai gelagat aneh pasangan yang tidak ingin ponselnya disentuh? Ketahui apa saja tanda-tanda cyber affair yang mungkin dilakukan oleh pasangan.

 

Apa itu Cyber Affair?

Cyber Affair atau disebut juga online affair adalah sebuah bentuk perselingkuhan yang dilakukan melalui dunia maya, seperti chatting, e-mail, media sosial atau aplikasi lainnya.

Mereka yang melakukan perselingkuhan melalui dunia maya mungkin tidak pernah bertatap muka langsung. Bagaimanapun, perselingkuhan seperti cyber affair tetaplah termasuk jenis perselingkuhan.

Perselingkuhan online adalah bentuk perselingkuhan yang melibatkan perasaan baik seksual maupun emosional tanpa adanya suatu komitmen atau hubungan yang lebih serius. 

Perselingkuhan online dapat dimulai dengan banyak cara. Hubungan ini bisa berawal dari dua orang yang saling tidak kenal atau sudah saling kenal seperti teman atau rekan kerja.

Disebut perselingkuhan online apabila percakapan biasa berkembang menjadi saling menggoda, dipenuhi romansa dan adanya kontak yang intens.

Baca Juga: Siapa yang Lebih Rentan Selingkuh Setelah Menikah, Pria atau Wanita?

 

Tanda-Tanda bila Pasangan Melakukan Cyber Affair

Secara umum, ada beberapa tanda yang menunjukkan pasangan Anda sedang menjalani cyber affair, di antaranya:

  • Menambahkan kata sandi ke perangkat tanpa sepengetahuan Anda dan tidak memberitahukan kata sandinya
  • Perubahan perilaku yang tiba-tiba
  • Menyembunyikan atau menyimpan perangkat elektronik saat masuk ke dalam ruangan
  • Menjadi defensif untuk menunjukkan riwayat internet mereka
  • Memiliki lebih dari satu akun sosial media yang rahasia
  • Menghabiskan lebih banyak waktu online
  • Menarik diri dari hubungan biasa atau hobi yang biasa dijalani
  • Perubahan pola tidur
  • Perubahan tiba-tiba dalam dorongan seksual di luar kebiasaannya, baik dorongan yang bertambah atau berkurang

Baca Juga: Ragam Penyebab Utama Orang Berselingkuh, Apa Saja Penyebabnya?

 

Bagaimana Menghadapi Pasangan yang Melakukan Cyber Affair?

Ketika mengetahui pasangan melakukan perselingkuhan online, tentunya Anda akan merasa sangat sakit dan sedih. Anda juga mungkin merasa terkejut, frustrasi, takut dan ingin melakukan pembalasan.

Semua perasaan negatif yang Anda alami adalah normal. Berikan waktu pada diri sendiri untuk mencernanya. Berikut adalah beberapa hal yang bisa dilakukan untuk menghadapi pasangan yang melakukan cyber affair, di antaranya:

  • Berbicara dari hati ke hati untuk mendiskusikan apa yang sedang pasangan lakukan itu adalah jenis perselingkuhan
  • Cari tahu mengapa mereka berselingkuh
  • Bicarakan apa yang Anda rasakan setelah mengetahui tindakannya
  • Jika diskusi memanas, berikan waktu untuk sama-sama menenangkan diri sejenak sebelum melanjutkan diskusi
  • Ajak pasangan untuk menemukan solusi atas permasalahan yang sedang dihadapi, dan bahwa perselingkuhan harus dihentikan
  • Jika Anda memilih bertahan dalam hubungan, maka sebaiknya sama-sama melakukan introspeksi diri dan memperbaiki hubungan

Di saat Anda mengalami kesulitan dalam berdiskusi dengan pasangan, Anda mungkin membutuhkan pendampingan pihak ketiga yang netral. Di sinilah peran terapis berlisensi untuk memediasi dan menjadi penengah bagi Anda dan pasangan.

Anda juga dapat melakukan konsultasi bersama ahlinya dengan menggunakan aplikasi Ai Care yang bisa diunduh di Playstore atau Appstore. 

 

Mau tahu tips dan trik kesehatan, pertolongan pertama, dan home remedies lainnya? Cek di sini, ya!

Writer : Agatha Writer
Editor :
  • dr Nadia Opmalina
Last Updated : Senin, 7 Agustus 2023 | 08:29
Tags : selingkuh perselingkuhan cyber affair selingkuh online

Sheri Stritof (2022). Signs Your Spouse Is Having an Online Affair. Available from: https://www.verywellmind.com/is-spouse-having-a-cyber-affair-2300653

Nicole Arzt (2022). Online Affairs: Examples, Why They Occur & How to Cope. Available from: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/online-affairs/

 

Staci Lee Schnell, MS, CS, LFMT (2016). Understanding the Different Types of Infidelity. Available from: https://psychcentral.com/blog/understanding-the-different-types-of-infidelity#1

Daftar Isi

Artikel Populer
Nutrisi
Mitos dan Fakta Tentang Berpuasa, Mana yang Benar?

Selasa, 21 Maret 2023 | 13:59

Ibu & Anak
Kenali Bahaya Mengisap Vape di Sekitar Anak-Anak

Senin, 16 Oktober 2023 | 16:58

Penyakit
Perbedaan Sirosis dan Kanker Hati

Jumat, 3 Desember 2021 | 11:57

Penyakit
Waspada, Ini Penyebab dan Faktor Risiko Terbentuknya Batu Empedu

Rabu, 23 Februari 2022 | 09:46

Penyakit
Mengenal Lima Jenis Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Apa Bedanya?

Jumat, 18 Februari 2022 | 10:22

Penyakit
Waspada, Ini Gejala Kanker Kantong Empedu yang Perlu Anda Ketahui

Jumat, 7 Oktober 2022 | 15:47

Penyakit
Risiko dan Efek Samping Bedah Bariatrik

Selasa, 6 Juni 2023 | 12:48

Artikel Terkait
Self Help
Apakah Flirting dengan Orang Lain Termasuk Selingkuh?
Penyakit
Bisakah Seseorang Ketagihan Selingkuh? Simak Faktanya
Self Help
Ketahui Apa Saja Jenis-Jenis Perselingkuhan
Gaya Hidup
Ragam Penyebab Utama Orang Berselingkuh, Apa Saja Penyebabnya?

Topik Kesehatan

NUTRISI
GAYA HIDUP
IBU & ANAK
PENYAKIT
COVID 19
SELF HELP
Messages1TimelineExceptionsViews11RouteQueries32Models56Livewire0MailsGateSessionRequest
Request history8.1.29PHP Version939msRequest Duration4MBMemory UsageGET {category}/{slug}Route
  • infolog[02:26:22] LOG.info: Attempting to authenticate with: { "username": "administrator", "url": ...
  • Booting (281ms)time
  • Application (658ms)time
  • 1 x Application (70.08%)
    658ms
    1 x Booting (29.92%)
    281ms
    11 templates were rendered
    • 1x web.v2.single-post-healthpediasingle-post-healthpedia.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.single.breadcrumbbreadcrumb.blade.php#?blade
    • 2x web.partials.single-sharesingle-share.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.single.editoreditor.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.single.tagstags.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.single.referensireferensi.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.article-populararticle-popular.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.related-articlerelated-article.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x web.v2.partials.healthtopichealthtopic.blade.php#?blade
    • 1x layouts.v2.web_layoutweb_layout.blade.php#?blade
    uri
    GET {category}/{slug}
    middleware
    web
    controller
    App\Http\Controllers\WebController@newSinglePost
    namespace
    App\Http\Controllers
    prefix
    where
    as
    web.new.single.post
    file
    app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:645-806
    32 statements were executed434ms
    • WebController.php#656aicare_prod_new1.27msselect * from `categories` where (`slug` = 'self-help' or `slug_en` = 'self-help') and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null limit 1
      Bindings
      • 0: self-help
      • 1: self-help
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • LIMIT without ORDER BY causes non-deterministic results, depending on the query execution plan
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:656
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#657aicare_prod_new53.31msselect * from `posts` where (`slug` = 'kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan' or `slug_en` = 'kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan') and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null limit 1
      Bindings
      • 0: kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan
      • 1: kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • LIMIT without ORDER BY causes non-deterministic results, depending on the query execution plan
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:657
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#703aicare_prod_new29.78msselect * from `posts` where (`slug` = 'kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan' or `slug_en` = 'kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan') and `status` = 1 and `publish_date` <= '2025-04-12 02:26:22' and `deleted_at` is null and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null limit 1
      Bindings
      • 0: kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan
      • 1: kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan
      • 2: 1
      • 3: 2025-04-12 02:26:22
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • LIMIT without ORDER BY causes non-deterministic results, depending on the query execution plan
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:703
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#703aicare_prod_new1.25msselect `users`.*, `post_editor`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `post_editor`.`user_id` as `pivot_user_id`, `post_editor`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `post_editor`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `users` inner join `post_editor` on `users`.`id` = `post_editor`.`user_id` where `post_editor`.`post_id` in (6262)
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:703
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#703aicare_prod_new960μsselect `users`.*, `post_english_editors`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `post_english_editors`.`user_id` as `pivot_user_id`, `post_english_editors`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `post_english_editors`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `users` inner join `post_english_editors` on `users`.`id` = `post_english_editors`.`user_id` where `post_english_editors`.`post_id` in (6262)
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:703
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#703aicare_prod_new6.49msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` in (6262) and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:703
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#703aicare_prod_new810μsselect * from `categories` where `categories`.`id` in (0) and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:703
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#724aicare_prod_new21.17msselect `tags`.*, `post_tag`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `post_tag`.`tag_id` as `pivot_tag_id`, `post_tag`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `post_tag`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `tags` inner join `post_tag` on `tags`.`id` = `post_tag`.`tag_id` where `post_tag`.`post_id` = 6262
      Bindings
      • 0: 6262
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:724
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#1360aicare_prod_new21.69msselect `posts`.*, `post_tag`.`tag_id` as `pivot_tag_id`, `post_tag`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id` from `posts` inner join `post_tag` on `posts`.`id` = `post_tag`.`post_id` where `post_tag`.`tag_id` = 4449 and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 4449
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:1360
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:735
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
    • WebController.php#1360aicare_prod_new12.98msselect `posts`.*, `post_tag`.`tag_id` as `pivot_tag_id`, `post_tag`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id` from `posts` inner join `post_tag` on `posts`.`id` = `post_tag`.`post_id` where `post_tag`.`tag_id` = 4464 and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 4464
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:1360
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:735
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
    • WebController.php#1360aicare_prod_new11.88msselect `posts`.*, `post_tag`.`tag_id` as `pivot_tag_id`, `post_tag`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id` from `posts` inner join `post_tag` on `posts`.`id` = `post_tag`.`post_id` where `post_tag`.`tag_id` = 7865 and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 7865
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:1360
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:735
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
    • WebController.php#1360aicare_prod_new11.7msselect `posts`.*, `post_tag`.`tag_id` as `pivot_tag_id`, `post_tag`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id` from `posts` inner join `post_tag` on `posts`.`id` = `post_tag`.`post_id` where `post_tag`.`tag_id` = 7866 and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 7866
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:1360
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:735
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
    • WebController.php#739aicare_prod_new122msselect * from `posts` where `status` = 1 and `publish_date` <= '2025-04-12 02:26:22' and `deleted_at` is null and `content_type` = 'article' and `posts`.`deleted_at` is null order by RAND() limit 7
      Bindings
      • 0: 1
      • 1: 2025-04-12 02:26:22
      • 2: article
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • ORDER BY RAND() is slow, try to avoid if you can. You can read this or this
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:739
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • CategoryHealtTopics.php#11aicare_prod_new1.33msselect * from `categories` where (`slug` != 'penyakit-a-z' and `slug` != 'obat-a-z' and `slug` != 'pemeriksaan-a-z' and `parent_id` = '0') and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null order by `order` asc
      Bindings
      • 0: penyakit-a-z
      • 1: obat-a-z
      • 2: pemeriksaan-a-z
      • 3: 0
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • The != operator is not standard. Use the <> operator to test for inequality instead.
      Backtrace
      • app/Repositories/Categories/CategoryHealtTopics.php:11
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:740
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
    • WebController.php#748aicare_prod_new1.85msselect `healthpedia`.*, `healthpedia_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `healthpedia_post`.`healthpedia_id` as `pivot_healthpedia_id`, `healthpedia_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `healthpedia_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `healthpedia` inner join `healthpedia_post` on `healthpedia`.`id` = `healthpedia_post`.`healthpedia_id` where `healthpedia_post`.`post_id` = 6262 and `healthpedia`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 6262
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:748
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • WebController.php#779aicare_prod_new8.36msupdate `posts` set `views_count` = 1266 where `id` = 6262
      Bindings
      • 0: 1266
      • 1: 6262
      Backtrace
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:779
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:260
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:205
    • ActivityLogger.php#174aicare_prod_new6.3msinsert into `activity_log` (`log_name`, `properties`, `batch_uuid`, `event`, `subject_id`, `subject_type`, `description`, `updated_at`, `created_at`) values ('default', '[]', null, 'updated', 6262, 'App\\Models\\Admin\\Post', 'updated', '2025-04-12 02:26:22', '2025-04-12 02:26:22')
      Bindings
      • 0: default
      • 1: []
      • 2: 
      • 3: updated
      • 4: 6262
      • 5: App\Models\Admin\Post
      • 6: updated
      • 7: 2025-04-12 02:26:22
      • 8: 2025-04-12 02:26:22
      Backtrace
      • vendor/spatie/laravel-activitylog/src/ActivityLogger.php:174
      • vendor/spatie/laravel-activitylog/src/Traits/LogsActivity.php:88
      • app/Http/Controllers/WebController.php:779
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:43
    • single-post-healthpedia.blade.php#37aicare_prod_new1.4msselect * from `users` where `users`.`id` = 20 limit 1
      Bindings
      • 0: 20
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • LIMIT without ORDER BY causes non-deterministic results, depending on the query execution plan
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.single-post-healthpedia:37
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new10.03msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 6774 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 6774
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new11.73msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 7879 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 7879
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new11.16msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 1889 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 1889
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new10.6msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 1031 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 1031
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new11.81msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 2529 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 2529
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new11.26msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 5219 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 5219
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • article-popular.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new10.63msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 7301 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 7301
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.article-popular:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • related-article.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new9.53msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 9759 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 9759
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.related-article:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • related-article.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new10.94msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 8606 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 8606
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.related-article:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • related-article.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new9.33msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 6263 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 6263
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.related-article:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • related-article.blade.php#8aicare_prod_new8.86msselect `categories`.*, `category_post`.`post_id` as `pivot_post_id`, `category_post`.`category_id` as `pivot_category_id`, `category_post`.`created_at` as `pivot_created_at`, `category_post`.`updated_at` as `pivot_updated_at` from `categories` inner join `category_post` on `categories`.`id` = `category_post`.`category_id` where `category_post`.`post_id` = 2253 and `categories`.`deleted_at` is null
      Bindings
      • 0: 2253
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      Backtrace
      • view::web.v2.partials.related-article:8
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • web_layout.blade.php#122aicare_prod_new1.37msselect * from `pages` where `slug` = 'about-us' limit 1
      Bindings
      • 0: about-us
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • LIMIT without ORDER BY causes non-deterministic results, depending on the query execution plan
      Backtrace
      • view::layouts.v2.web_layout:122
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • web_layout.blade.php#547aicare_prod_new1.02msselect * from `faqs` limit 1
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • The SELECT statement has no WHERE clause and could examine many more rows than intended
      • LIMIT without ORDER BY causes non-deterministic results, depending on the query execution plan
      Backtrace
      • view::layouts.v2.web_layout:547
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    • web_layout.blade.php#551aicare_prod_new1.34msselect * from `term_policies`
      Hints
      • Use SELECT * only if you need all columns from table
      • The SELECT statement has no WHERE clause and could examine many more rows than intended
      Backtrace
      • view::layouts.v2.web_layout:551
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
      • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
      • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:72
    App\Models\Admin\Post
    26Post.php#?
    App\Models\Admin\Category
    19Category.php#?
    App\Models\Admin\Tag
    4Tag.php#?
    App\Models\TermPolicy
    3TermPolicy.php#?
    App\User
    2User.php#?
    App\Models\Admin\Page
    1Page.php#?
    App\Models\Admin\Faq
    1Faq.php#?
        locale
        id
        _token
        f6Bp5kCI25a2WH1u16zN9y0Wvx0W11covQPJJceb
        _previous
        array:1 [ "url" => "https://ai-care.atmatech.id/self-help/kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dil...
        _flash
        array:2 [ "old" => [] "new" => [] ]
        path_info
        /self-help/kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan
        status_code
        200
        status_text
        OK
        format
        html
        content_type
        text/html; charset=UTF-8
        request_query
        []
        request_request
        []
        request_headers
          0 of 0   
        array:20 [▼
  "cookie" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6InpNOEc4akgrcnBzTmozOFl2VVlxOGc9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiNFJCNk95Q3ZjQ3ZLM3FMR3VyVTk5d0g2cWw3cGdJeXRYQ0V2ZUpHR0dTeitFbDBnT0pzdUNXY2dGVkswb2RlMmhZeVp4bENLaGxhS05oeG5acmlVVUZRY3c4R2NXWmxHTWI0dTAyUUJRdU1TUmJjU2dOVDJPUkFpbUV4UHVJV0MiLCJtYWMiOiJlZjViMTFiOTUxYTcyYjE5NzI5MDZlNTRhMDI5YmE2ZGM0YzU1YTY1MWU2NzQzMDY3M2UyMjYwZTdlOWVjMWY4IiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; laravel_session=eyJpdiI6IlYwdGRUY2ZVM0lmT3FCcG1OM0ZhZkE9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiUnBrMFNMOFJtNm5vUnRZT2JCZ1ovOTNIRWNxTmp2VSs3THlHdFl4NnBNUi9jOWUwMXZKWHcxaU92YzFNajdrVlRnWVRzYU1xbUFGaG10ZXRKRkRPc1RRTXRHZ2QwazRtdVFwRlUzNDZkSjZJd0ZVdzBESGp1ZE5VV0dwUHN4NUciLCJtYWMiOiJjZjRhM2NmZjAzOGVmZWIzNDc5ZDhlYTQ3MTU3NGFlM2UyMjZhYjY5MDFjNzUxMmE0NTRkZGJhNzI4MWUyMjM2IiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D ◀XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6InpNOEc4akgrcnBzTmozOFl2VVlxOGc9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiNFJCNk95Q3ZjQ3ZLM3FMR3VyVTk5d0g2cWw3cGdJeXRYQ0V2ZUpHR0dTeitFbDBnT0pzdUNXY2dGVkswb2RlMmhZeVp4b ▶"
  ]
  "accept-encoding" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "gzip, deflate, br, zstd"
  ]
  "sec-fetch-dest" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "document"
  ]
  "sec-fetch-user" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "?1"
  ]
  "sec-fetch-mode" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "navigate"
  ]
  "sec-fetch-site" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "none"
  ]
  "accept" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "text/html,application/xhtml+xml,application/xml;q=0.9,image/avif,image/webp,image/apng,*/*;q=0.8,application/signed-exchange;v=b3;q=0.7"
  ]
  "user-agent" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "Mozilla/5.0 AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko; compatible; ClaudeBot/1.0; +claudebot@anthropic.com)"
  ]
  "upgrade-insecure-requests" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "1"
  ]
  "sec-ch-ua-platform" => array:1 [▶
    0 => ""Windows""
  ]
  "sec-ch-ua-mobile" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "?0"
  ]
  "sec-ch-ua" => array:1 [▶
    0 => ""HeadlessChrome";v="129", "Not=A?Brand";v="8", "Chromium";v="129""
  ]
  "cache-control" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "no-cache"
  ]
  "pragma" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "no-cache"
  ]
  "x-real-ip" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "18.217.145.147"
  ]
  "x-forwarded-for" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "18.217.145.147"
  ]
  "x-forwarded-proto" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "https"
  ]
  "x-forwarded-scheme" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "https"
  ]
  "host" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "ai-care.atmatech.id"
  ]
  "connection" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "keep-alive"
  ]
]
        request_cookies
          0 of 0   
        array:2 [▼
  "XSRF-TOKEN" => "f6Bp5kCI25a2WH1u16zN9y0Wvx0W11covQPJJceb"
  "laravel_session" => "YoLfujdfdAEDDF5J1wIhL0vwCoWDeMGl5ilZv5ta"
]
        response_headers
          0 of 0   
        array:5 [▼
  "content-type" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "text/html; charset=UTF-8"
  ]
  "cache-control" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "no-cache, private"
  ]
  "date" => array:1 [▶
    0 => "Fri, 11 Apr 2025 19:26:23 GMT"
  ]
  "set-cookie" => array:2 [▶
    0 => "XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6Ijg4VWp5NXNlZ1JGMHpQZzhHU1crUEE9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiVkg4UXRsRDZrOGxoeEdvOWxoMEVCQUt2M2NHYmZIS2E0bUdkcU53MGliRkdQQ1RlRFVmbFpwU2x4aEZjcHZzQkZzQmx3OXlSMTlNb0FjUGFtbFhiQjRiZ0dQajBCT1QzcU50YVVtUUV0RDhtczNTWWlCbUFoWm5RTzVZUVZvZmUiLCJtYWMiOiI2YjljN2Y4MmZlM2MyNDRlMTk2OTBiMDQyOGY4M2U3NTFhZThmZjk5MGU5ODJjOTE0ZTlhYWJkOThhNTVkODZlIiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; expires=Fri, 11 Apr 2025 21:26:23 GMT; Max-Age=7200; path=/; secure ◀XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6Ijg4VWp5NXNlZ1JGMHpQZzhHU1crUEE9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiVkg4UXRsRDZrOGxoeEdvOWxoMEVCQUt2M2NHYmZIS2E0bUdkcU53MGliRkdQQ1RlRFVmbFpwU2x4aEZjcHZzQkZzQmx3O ▶"
    1 => "laravel_session=eyJpdiI6IllGWFdISlZnQU9QcVJYTVc4ZHFDL0E9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiTFhLSFhDOENWTDRiK2ZNM08ySXRLV3NvaXRkVU0rTlA3aXVGMWlBckExdG1FblV1aFJJdWlQbVMrYlhIWUxKWGdkQ3ZKcnFLbzF1TEpCM2MvQVNYRkJhbjRnWEcrUERCTWIwZG9qZ1JxRkN5WFRtT041UldRdUFBWkJubHo4eDgiLCJtYWMiOiIwYTczYTJlZTQzZTQ3ZmFlN2JlNjJkZjE3NzBiZmUzNWFiOWJmNzZhZTE0M2QzMGYzOWExNDIwMWExMTEzMmZjIiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; expires=Fri, 11 Apr 2025 21:26:23 GMT; Max-Age=7200; path=/; httponly ◀laravel_session=eyJpdiI6IllGWFdISlZnQU9QcVJYTVc4ZHFDL0E9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiTFhLSFhDOENWTDRiK2ZNM08ySXRLV3NvaXRkVU0rTlA3aXVGMWlBckExdG1FblV1aFJJdWlQbVMrYlhIWUxKWGdk ▶"
  ]
  "Set-Cookie" => array:2 [▶
    0 => "XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6Ijg4VWp5NXNlZ1JGMHpQZzhHU1crUEE9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiVkg4UXRsRDZrOGxoeEdvOWxoMEVCQUt2M2NHYmZIS2E0bUdkcU53MGliRkdQQ1RlRFVmbFpwU2x4aEZjcHZzQkZzQmx3OXlSMTlNb0FjUGFtbFhiQjRiZ0dQajBCT1QzcU50YVVtUUV0RDhtczNTWWlCbUFoWm5RTzVZUVZvZmUiLCJtYWMiOiI2YjljN2Y4MmZlM2MyNDRlMTk2OTBiMDQyOGY4M2U3NTFhZThmZjk5MGU5ODJjOTE0ZTlhYWJkOThhNTVkODZlIiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; expires=Fri, 11-Apr-2025 21:26:23 GMT; path=/; secure ◀XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6Ijg4VWp5NXNlZ1JGMHpQZzhHU1crUEE9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiVkg4UXRsRDZrOGxoeEdvOWxoMEVCQUt2M2NHYmZIS2E0bUdkcU53MGliRkdQQ1RlRFVmbFpwU2x4aEZjcHZzQkZzQmx3O ▶"
    1 => "laravel_session=eyJpdiI6IllGWFdISlZnQU9QcVJYTVc4ZHFDL0E9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiTFhLSFhDOENWTDRiK2ZNM08ySXRLV3NvaXRkVU0rTlA3aXVGMWlBckExdG1FblV1aFJJdWlQbVMrYlhIWUxKWGdkQ3ZKcnFLbzF1TEpCM2MvQVNYRkJhbjRnWEcrUERCTWIwZG9qZ1JxRkN5WFRtT041UldRdUFBWkJubHo4eDgiLCJtYWMiOiIwYTczYTJlZTQzZTQ3ZmFlN2JlNjJkZjE3NzBiZmUzNWFiOWJmNzZhZTE0M2QzMGYzOWExNDIwMWExMTEzMmZjIiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; expires=Fri, 11-Apr-2025 21:26:23 GMT; path=/; httponly ◀laravel_session=eyJpdiI6IllGWFdISlZnQU9QcVJYTVc4ZHFDL0E9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiTFhLSFhDOENWTDRiK2ZNM08ySXRLV3NvaXRkVU0rTlA3aXVGMWlBckExdG1FblV1aFJJdWlQbVMrYlhIWUxKWGdk ▶"
  ]
]
        session_attributes
          0 of 0   
        array:4 [▼
  "locale" => "id"
  "_token" => "f6Bp5kCI25a2WH1u16zN9y0Wvx0W11covQPJJceb"
  "_previous" => array:1 [▶
    "url" => "https://ai-care.atmatech.id/self-help/kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan"
  ]
  "_flash" => array:2 [▶
    "old" => []
    "new" => []
  ]
]
        ClearShow all
        Date ↕MethodURLData
        #12025-04-12 02:26:23GET/self-help/kenali-tanda-tanda-cyber-affair-yang-dilakukan-pasangan1113256